A reflection on why we shouldn’t wait for a new year, a clean slate or the “right moment” to change who we’re becoming. Think ‘direction’, not resolution. What direction are you moving in…?

A new year doesn’t make you different, but it can make you deliberate.

Deliberate with your intentions. Deliberate with your direction. Deliberate with the outcome you want to move toward.

And when you do that, that’s when change becomes possible.

I keep thinking about that Michael Jackson line from ‘Man in the Mirror’.
“If you want to make the world a better place, take a look at yourself and make a change.”

Because real change doesn’t start “out there”, it starts here, with who we choose to be.
And when I look at the world right now, I can’t help but feel we all need a little more of that.
More gentleness. More listening. More choosing to look after one another instead of tearing each other down.

But here’s the part I’ve never quite agreed with:
Why wait?

Why wait until January to write down your goals?
Why wait to build momentum?
Why wait to recalibrate who you are and where you’re going?

If you know the direction you want to move in, start now.

Even if it’s the holidays, even if life is messy and tempting and loud. Even if everyone else is saying, “I’ll begin in the new year.”

Start small, but start now.

I’m doing this myself right now. I'm trying to build my own momentum now, not later. I’m reading more.
Training with more consistency and intensity. Eating cleaner, cutting down on sugar and processed foods that make me feel sluggish. Taking my vitamins and minerals every day.
All small things, but they stack up. Speak to your uncle Scott about the compound effect…

If anyone else happens to read this letter, have a little think about this;

If your goals are fitness-related, get three sessions in before Christmas. Build familiarity. Build momentum. Remember - NO ONE is coming to do it for you. 

If your goals are work-related, map them out now. Write the stepping stones.
Understand who you need to become to reach them.

If your goals are personal - save more money, do better in your relationships, look after yourself - begin with one action TODAY.

To quote another hero of mine, Apollo Creed, Rocky 3 - ‘There is no tomorrow’.

Leo, don’t wait for the rest to go. Stay ahead of the pack. Use your time wisely.

Identity is the quiet part of all of this. Look back on who you were this year, and look forward to who you’re becoming.

Pick out your highlights. Learn from the lowlights. Carry the best of yourself forward and leave the rest with love.

Think direction, not resolution.
Not rigid goals.
Not pressure.
Just intentional, sustainable movement hat feels true.

And for me, as your dad, intention matters even more because you’re watching. You notice everything. You absorb it. You mirror it back to me.

It feels like walking through life with a gentle mirror held up, reminding me that my choices shape your world too.

That’s where legacy comes in.

One day, when you’re a dad yourself, you’ll understand this feeling, the weight and the privilege of wanting to set a standard we can both be proud of.

So my biggest intention for the new year and all the years to come is simple:

That the version of me you see, and the version of me I’m becoming, is shaped by love, honesty, progress, and happiness.

That’s the direction I’m choosing.

Always,
Daddy

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